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Why Is ‘No’ So Hard To Understand?

If she says no during sex, does she mean go harder? In school I had this boyfriend. Let’s call him N. That’s the alphabet his name starts with. I pray that he reads this and realizes how much he hurt me. He never did understand when I told him. And my friends did not understand either. It has taken me years to realize and accept that a lot of people do not understand that when it comes to sex, you can say yes and then change your mind and say no. So N visited me after his lectures one afternoon. We had fought the day before and I was still mad at him. But when he came, he begged me and I somewhat forgave. Just a little. Sometimes it takes me a while to forgive someone. So after our little reconciliation, I went into the bathroom for a shower. When I came back to the room, he…

Why Women Cheat – Crux Of The Matter With Elsie

Morning! I promised to be here today to remind you about my hangout with Elsie this evening at Happenings Radio. It promises to be fun, so please don’t miss it. We’ll be talking about cheating girlfriends and wives. Hopefully, we’ll get to understand why women cheat. It’s a topic I became interested in over two years ago when a friend shared a story with me about someone we both knew who went from having an emotional affair to a physical one with someone in her church and how it all turned out messy. It made for juicy talk but since then I had been intrigued by the topic entirely. I began online research and also went around asking questions. It would amaze you the type of info I got. When I wanted to write something new and I asked people what they felt I should work on, cheating wives was top on the list. This…

Dear Sally, He Is Cold And Distant

Hi Fam, I want to share something with you and hope you help out. I get letters all the time asking for my advice or take on people’s personal issues. I answer all as best as I can but I guess I don’t always have all the answers, and that’s why I need your help here. Dear Sally, How are you and the family? And work? I know we don’t know each other that well yet but i need you advice on a personal ish. I noticed you write your thoughts about relationship ishes just like me, although i see mine as bringing up issues that people usually don’t talk about and then we talk about it. But unfortunately, people expect ‘us’ to know everything, which isn’t always the case. I think i’m blabbering now…lolx so i’ll just get to the point. But I think I should start by giving…

After Dark: Made To Penetrate – She Raped Him…

When a woman rapes a man… Last year, the news about a 26 year old woman who raped a man went viral and I had to latch on to get the gist. I clicked on a link I saw on Twitter and it took me to Huffington Post where I got the entire detail about the rape incident which actually occurred two years ago. So Chantae Gilman is a mother of four and now pregnant with her fifth child and is facing charges of rape, after breaking into a man’s home and raping him while he slept. According to the victim, who was not named, he had attended a party earlier and had a long day, after which he went straight to bed, only to wake up later to see Gilman straddling him, his hands bound above his head and she was having non-consensual sex with him. He told her…

After Dark: The Lies About Orgasms and Why You Shouldn’t Fake Them (2)

This article is long in coming. I apologize for the absence. If you haven’t read my article on orgasms, you can do so here I’d like to go further with reasons why you are not having orgasms. But before we do so, I’d prefer to explain to you why you shouldn’t ever fake an orgasm. In our times today, there is so much pressure on women and men to act certain ways during sex. This has been heightened by pornography, articles on the web, peer pressure and other forms of sex material we come across daily. There is that need for either of the sexes to be at their top performance when making love and although it is not a bad thing, it should first be noted that sex is not about pressure. It’s about release, expression, feelings, rest, exhilaration, action, reaction, skill, pleasure and love. If you are not in…

After Dark: Dear Mr and Mrs Anonymous, My Boyfriend is a Serial Cheater

We’ve been having letters pouring in and this is one of them from T Please email us at mrandmrsanonymous@yahoo.com if you need help or need to talk. You can find another answered email about masturbation on 360nobs.com Thank you Madam for that heart touching piece. You said it all!!! It was like you were talking about me. From the abortion, heartbreaks, to  finally being cold hearted. This description “A young boy whose hormones are all around the place and is not yet ready to settle down, who has not yet grasped the concept of fidelity wants a girl who would be faithful to him, be good in bed, cook for him, care for him, respect his family, treat him like a king and bring good fortune to him” is the exact picture of my boyfriend. He says I am that girl and we have been dating since February,2013. You know, guys cannot eat…

After Dark: These Chicks Ain’t Loyal

So the gist going round is that some guy drove for 17 hours to see a babe who gave him just a hug and a slice of cake. Then they watched a movie and then she asked him to leave and the guy left her house and rented a hotel and didn’t as much as tap that booty. Pause… Before I go on, I’d like to apologize for deviating from my intended topic today which has a lot to do with sex. Pardon me. Sometimes there are things juicier than sex. Where was I? so this guy that got nothing from this babe apparently got into a zone worse than the friendzone. I think he was carzoned because well, he’ll have to drive 17 hours back. That is 34 hours for a hug and a cake. It’s alright. Ladies, diarris God o. But the guy sef. How can you drive…

Test-The-Terone: Ladies, These Things Destroy Our Egos During Sex. STOPEEET!

It’s a known fact that the average male thinks about sex 19 times a day, this is because we are biologically wired that way, but this doesn’t mean we plan or want to have sex 19 times in a day. Actually, some of us just want to have good sex regularly and idea of regular sex even differs from one man to another. But while having sex, whether regular or not, a man wants to be successful with it, we work in the moment and would not react well to any distraction; because if that happens, things get awkward, we could lose erection and then we feel we have failed in performing our duty. And most times it all boils down to when our egos are bruised before or during sex, especially during sex. Our egos will banish if we want something that moment and is not given to us…

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